How can I pay for sex

My wife (36) and I (37) have an open relationship. We find this the most natural and honest form of relationship. Since experience has shown that I cannot end up with normal women, I am considering going to a professional. An ideal candidate would be a woman who enjoys sex (is there such a thing at all?), Who simply wants to earn some extra money and is not as pedantic when choosing a partner as on the free market because of the money. Mathis

Dear Mathis

Do not take it amiss, but there are so many strange conclusions and ideas in your question that it is not possible to clarify all critical points here.

For example, it seems strange that you are in an open relationship when you are convinced that you have no chance of having sex outside of marriage yourself. Aren't you putting yourself in a situation where frustration is inevitable? Paid sex or not? What does that mean for your self-worth?

And how do you come to the conclusion that women don't enjoy sex? Why else should your girlfriend choose and commit to an open relationship? Denying the opposite sex pleasure is a total killer for beautiful couple sexuality.

You seem to have a rather unrealistic picture of paid sex, if you don't really want a prostitute for whom sex is a business, but rather a normal woman who you can use money to undo your alleged flaws. This mix of private and paid sex is a delicate matter in which you as a person or customer can quickly get lost.

All in all, as I said, there are some tricky points that you better clarify in a consultation before you get caught up in something that overwhelms you or makes you unhappy.

What is an open relationship?

In an open relationship, the two partners forego sexual exclusivity. That is, they give each other permission to sleep with others during the relationship. Each couple must negotiate and determine the rules of the game themselves.

Published: 04/11/2017, 11:52 p.m.
Last updated: October 12, 2018, 4:15 p.m.