Is it okay not to like fat people?

Can you fall in love with fat people too?

Hello everybody,

About a week ago my friend told me in a very emotional conversation that she thought that she was missing something in the relationship, but she didn't know what was wrong with her. We have been together for over 2 years and she currently thinks that she is changing and is afraid that because of this we would no longer fit together in the future. In the last few months we didn't have that much time for each other because of exam stress, university, etc. There was usually only one meeting left per week. She says she still loves me and wants to be with me. At the same time, however, she does not know whether this so-called something that she is missing is not more important to her than our relationship. Of course she can't say that just yet. But if she finds out, she just doesn't know.

Unfortunately, I no longer understand the world. I know I sound desperate, but what you're saying is so paradoxical that I don't really know how to classify it. She says that she loves me for who I am and that she finds me perfect. At the same time, however, she does not know whether another type of man might be an option for her in the future, once she has discussed her problem.

I really don't know how to deal with the situation. We actually want to continue as before, but at the same time, of course, I am constantly uncertain whether it will be over soon. Whether that will be more important to her than our relationship ...

I have always given her everything that makes a good relationship, I was honest, loyal, helpful, trusting, humorous. It may sound arrogant, but it shouldn't. I don't understand why a person can have such thoughts when he has everything and still wants more. I don't understand why she thinks that way when many women would dearly wish for just such a type of man ...

I would be very grateful for numerous comments. Maybe also female advice .. as a man maybe too limited for that ..

Before anyone comes up with the idea, no, she is not cheating and no, she has no other guy in mind. I already know her so well that she would tell me.

Thank you for all of your advice!