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75 touching sayings for lovesickness and separation pain

Our selected sayings support you in coping with lovesickness because you can become aware of your feelings through them. They help you process your pain and put your thoughts into words. So they can be helpful not only in conversation with your (ex) partner, but also to give you new courage.

Lovesickness can affect anyone at any age. Not only does the heart suffer, but the whole body. Researchers at the University of Tübingen found that motivation and sleeping and eating behavior in particular suffer from lovesickness. Especially when the feelings and worries are not being talked about, lovesick sayings can help you deal with your grief.

As a rule, lovesickness is triggered by arguments, jealousy, a breakup, or missing a partner. Especially if you and your partner are not communicating or you are actually mad at each other, a lovesick line can help you express yourself.

Sayings for lovesickness in a long distance relationship

Sayings for lovesickness in a long distance relationship

In a long-distance relationship, the heartache is primarily triggered by the missing of the partner. But jealousy and distrust due to distance can also lead to thoughts that cause lovesickness. In addition, there is sometimes the fear of perhaps drifting apart. Because of the powerlessness, disappointment, sadness and frustration creep into everyday life - lovesickness is omnipresent and difficult to cope with.

Lovesick sayings don't always have to be sad or exactly what you are feeling. Sometimes it also helps to forget the negative thoughts and to be forgiving towards the partner. An argument at a distance only causes more heartache. But if you send him or her a loving saying and you get a nice answer, you will be calmer and your lovesickness will probably disappear a little. Of course, the longing also increases, but the negative thoughts will pass and your mood will improve.

  1. I miss your breath that I listen to at night; your hand touching me gently I miss your soul that makes me stagger
  2. If you're not with me for just a minute, an hour of my life is missing.
  3. It's hard to let you go So hard to accept. But I know it will be worth waiting
  4. I won't stop loving you until a painter can paint the sound of a falling rose.
  5. Love is unconditional support for the other. Unconditionality includes one's own grief.
  6. Forgive me for not wanting to let you go I now know we will get through it together and we will soon be in each other's arms again.
  7. Love makes us believe in things that we would otherwise face with the greatest suspicion.
  8. Take it for pleasure and it's a pleasure!
    Take it as agony and it is agony.
    (Indian proverb)
  9. Only when you stumble do you pay attention to the path.
  10. The memories of us are hot water bottles for my heart.
  11. If you are not with me, I wish that the time would fly by. When you're with me, I wish she'd stop.
    (Anita Lamm)
  12. It is not important to be close to cities, but to be close to hearts.
  13. For the greatest happiness, it is worth waiting, even if it is sometimes difficult.
  14. Love is giving up self-will. I give up my will to always want to keep you with me and support you in your dream of Australia.
  15. Longing would kill me if I didn't know that it only proves that I love you.

Sayings for lovesickness in an argument

Sayings for lovesickness in an argument

If you're lovesick because you quarreled with your partner, you will probably want to make up again. Even if you are angry and see the law on your side, you will hope inside that you will find each other again. The heartache after an argument could even take your thoughts so far that you are afraid of your relationship and anticipate a breakup.

However, it is also important to express your point of view within the argument and not just agree with your partner out of fear of a breakup. You should find a compromise and both of you should be clear about your feelings. The following sayings for lovesickness can help you in an argument. Some of them are life wisdom, others represent doubt, sadness or reconciliation. Find out which of the sayings suits you best.

  1. This is how it often goes with a conversation: After a while of unsuccessful argument, you realize that you haven't even talked about the same thing.
    (André Gide)
  2. Those who want to be happy all the time, must change frequently.
    (Confucius)
  3. Not the lucky ones are grateful. It is the grateful who are happy.
    (Francis Bacon)
  4. Man is just as happy as he chooses to be.
  5. We shouldn't argue, we should discuss and try to come to an agreement: calm, understanding, open-minded and, above all, respecting our love.
  6. Stop saying you will try. Do it or leave it.
  7. Forgiveness is not foolishness
    only a fool cannot forgive.
    (Chinese proverb)
  8. It is important to always look at things from two perspectives.
  9. It's not about who is right, but about finding each other again.
  10. The stars are only reflected in a calm pond.
  11. Sometimes you have to quarrel in partnerships because you learn more about each other.
    (Johann Wolfgang von Goethe)
  12. So let's agree that we disagree.
    (Dr. Gregory House)
  13. One word is enough to make a person cry, but it takes 1,000 words to dry the tears again.
  14. My will and my love are on one side, my reason and my experience on the other.
  15. It is the little struggles for power, the compulsion to be absolutely right, that can wear down a love.

Sayings for lovesickness with jealousy

Jealousy, in a small way, isn't all that bad for a relationship. She makes sure to appreciate his partner and be grateful for him. But if it goes beyond this small level, it can be a real relationship killer. Strong jealousy can therefore cause heartache on both sides: it causes suffering in the person who is with a jealous partner and in the jealous person himself.

Often times, jealousy is caused by a history of the jealous breach of trust, but just as often it can happen that there is no reason for the partner to be suspicious. With or without a history - if there is no basis of trust in a relationship, it will fail sooner or later. The following sayings are helpful when you are jealous yourself and looking for improvement, and also when you are with a jealous partner and feel unfairly treated. Here are tips on how to learn to deal with jealousy.

  1. To be jealous is to doubt not your wife but yourself.
    (Honoré de Balzac)
  2. Jealousy is a passion that eagerly seeks what creates suffering.
    (Franz Grillparzer)
  3. Love is the desire to give, not to receive.
    (Berthold Brecht)
  4. Curiosity is the daughter of jealousy.
    (Molière)
  5. Jealousy distorts the view of things.
  6. Love means trust. Jealousy means distrust. For love to survive, trust must prevail.
  7. The jealous man searches greedily for what he fears to find.
    (Otto Weiss)
  8. If the fear is filled with love, it will eventually dissolve.
  9. There's no point in crying any more than laughing.
  10. Jealousy never leaves the mind enough freedom to see things as they are!
    (Miguel de Cervantes)
  11. Put trust and you will get trust back.
  12. Thinking is hard, that's why most of them judge.
    (Carl Gustav Jung)
  13. Love may be blind, but jealousy sees too much.
  14. Jealousy has nothing to do with the love one feels for the other. Jealousy has to do with the love you don't have for yourself.
    (Jörn Pfennig)
  15. My fear of losing you will ultimately be the reason I'll lose you one day. I don't want to let it get that far and from today I will start to heal my suspicions through our love.

Sayings for lovesickness during a breakup

Sayings for lovesickness after a breakup

When a breakup occurs, lovesickness is often very pronounced. It is expressed in either anger or sadness. Coping with grief can take different lengths of time for each person. That depends, among other things, on whether you mourn your ex-partner wistfully afterwards and want to win him back, or whether you actually know that the breakup was the right thing to do, but still look back mournfully at the good times. If a phase of anger develops instead of a phase of grief, you will probably look cynically at love and initially no longer feel like having a relationship.

The emotional chaos that arises after a breakup can be sorted out a bit with sayings. Read through some of them and think about which one you can best relate to. Maybe they give you courage or reinforce your views and you feel understood. If none of the lovesick sayings can express your feelings, write them down yourself and try to reduce them to a few sentences. Just verbalizing your emotions can help you cope with lovesickness. Saying goodbye is never easy, but accepting the situation is the first step towards recovery.

  1. Sometimes things break that were meant to last forever.
  2. When you left I needed you the most.
  3. Why didn't we manage to hold on?
  4. It is not uncommon for great suffering to be followed by great love.
  5. A mouth can laugh even though the heart is crying.
  6. Never say you've lost true love because true love would never leave you.
  7. The most wonderful fairy tale is not love, but life itself.
  8. When you are not doing well, take the time to grieve. But forget about the grief afterwards and think about what makes you happy.
  9. The real art is to find the wonderful in the everyday and not to make it dependent on a single person.
  10. Freedom is the ability to forego opportunities. Use freedom, renounce it and live in the here and now.
  11. In the oceans there is no single wave.
  12. Every life has a level of suffering, and sometimes this is what causes awakening.
  13. I love you. But I love myself more
  14. Hopes and expectations are two different things. Don't be satisfied with the former.
  15. Man has three ways to act wisely.
    First, by thinking: this is the noblest.
    Second, by imitation: this is the easiest.
    Third, through experience: that is the bitterest.
    (Confucius)

Funny lovesick sayings

Funny lovesick sayings

Some take heartache very seriously, others take it with humor. Laughing at yourself or the opposite sex is usually the best medicine. With the following sayings make yourself aware that there is no reason for your lovesickness and try to fight the pain with a positive mindset. Or improve your mood with little pieces of wisdom about the opposite sex that go well with your situation or your partner.

Funny lovesick sayings not only give comfort, but also create a sense of belonging by showing you that love has always been complicated. Do not have a guilty conscience because in your situation you would rather laugh than sink into lovesickness and just grieve. Laughter is one of the best ways to manage grief, and everyone processes the depths of a relationship differently.

  1. Whoever no longer loves and is no longer wrong, let himself be buried.
    (Johann Wolfgang von Goethe)
  2. Usually dream women are an optical illusion.
    (Peter Ustinov)
  3. You can't really rely on the weather and love.
  4. I wish I could go back in time, slap myself, and come back again.
  5. It's sad when two people can't be together because one of them is a complete idiot.
  6. If I weren't such a philanthropist, my life would be a lot easier.
  7. Feelings are like alcohol. At some point the body broke them down.
  8. Sometimes you have to be unhappy in life, otherwise you don't even appreciate it!
  9. A wise man never contradicts a woman, He waits for her to do it herself.
    (Humphrey Bogart)
  10. There are three things a woman can pull out of nowhere: a hat, a salad, and a marital row.
    (Mark Twain)
  11. We women need beauty so that men love us, stupidity so that we love men.
    (Coco Chanel)
  12. Of course you have to take the men as they are. But you can't let it be like that.
    (Zsa Zsa Gabor)
  13. Women are the jewels of creation. You have to wear it with composure.
    (Heinz Erhardt)
  14. You are like the universe: unfathomable and never really reachable.
  15. The big question, which I am unable to answer despite my thirty years of studying the female soul, is: "What does a woman actually want?"
    (Sigmund Freud)
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