How can we ask someone's question

Questions to get to know: You should ask them!

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When you've fallen in love with someone, you're all confused with emotions, excitement and curiosity. It feels like there are a thousand questions that you want to ask him in order to get to know this person better. How does he live, what makes him tick, does he suit me? No wonder that so many nights are simply chatted through because there is no end to it.

But sometimes you're just too excited and nervous to ask the right questions. Or to ask questions at all. For example, it always happens to me that, even after weeks, I cannot tell what eye color the other person is wearing. That he has stunning eyes - yes - but not the color. Or after weeks you don't know anything about your family - simply because there were so many other topics.

The most beautiful questions to get to know at the beginning of your relationship

Fortunately, in love, as in life, there are no stupid questions. And when you're crazy about each other, not at all. So don't be afraid to ask your counterpart holes in the stomach.

And if you don't know where to start, just let our get to know questions inspire you. These are at least questions that bring you closer to each other and create a special familiarity between you. Questions that make a conversation evolve by itself. Here we go!

(And we now assume that you know his name and what he does, i.e. whether he works, studies, does an apprenticeship, etc.)

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Questions to get to know: childhood and such

Do you have siblings? Are you the youngest or the oldest?

What were you absolutely enthusiastic about as a child?

What did you find particularly difficult as a child?

Did you have the very best buddy as a kid?

What does your family mean to you? / How is your relationship with your parents today?

Questions to get to know: love and such

How was your first big love?

What are you looking for in a relationship?

What is it that particularly attracts you in women / men?

What did you think when you first saw me?

What was the craziest thing that you did for love?

Would you like to get married someday and have children?

What was the best thing that someone did for you out of love?

Are you a jealous person?

Have you ever really been lovesick?

What are you like when you are unhappy?

What was the most unusual place for you to have sex?

What would you like to try out during sex?

What is taboo for you during sex?

Questions to get to know: How do you tick?

Do you have a job that you are passionate about?

Have you ever come into conflict with the law?

Can you lose at the game

Do you like animals?

Do you prefer to listen or do you prefer to tell?

What do you like most about yourself?

And what not at all?

Getting to Know Questions: Dreams and Future

What did you want to become when you were a child?

What would you like to be now if you had (again) the free choice?

What is your greatest talent?

What is your greatest weakness?

Where do you see yourself in ten years?

Settle down or travel the world?

What would you do with ten million euros?

Questions to get to know: Interpersonal

What three words would your friends use to describe you?

Which three of your parents?

Who can criticize you?

Can your friends blindly rely on you?

What question should I have asked you?

What questions do you have for me?

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