What's your strangest non-sexual fantasy

42 sex fantasies people actually have

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"My biggest fantasy is going to a place where you can have sex with robots."

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When it comes to sexual fantasies, our minds come up with strange, creative, and unexpected ideas. Since many people have fantasies that they would never tell their partner or act out in reality, they remain a secret. And because of this, you may think you're the only person in the world who fantasizes about a certain thing.

Hoping to ~ demystify ~ other people's delightful and private fantasy worlds, BuzzFeed has asked people of all ages, genders, and sexual orientations to describe the core of their favorite sexual fantasies. And remember: your sexual fantasies are neither bad nor shameful. It's natural to fantasize about wild scenarios - even ones that you don't even want to perform in real life.

Here are their answers.


"I want a hot guy to mouth it until I come while my friend watches so he can finally learn how to do it properly."

—19 / female / heterosexual


“I want the supernatural ability to sleep with anyone I choose and meet. I want the power to make everyone want to sleep with me, regardless of their sexual orientation. I want to be able to make sure that they all have sex with me. "

—30 / male / gay


“I'd really like to be able to change the kind of genitals I have in no time. For example, I would like to fuck someone with my cock and then get fucked up my vagina and then switch to a tentacle (or maybe something else) to be able to masturbate with. "

—22 / Non-binary / Queer

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“I've been in love with my ex for nine years. After I Westworld I started imagining how amazing it would be to have a robot that looks and acts like my ex, the only difference being that it is actually present in my life. It didn't take long for those daydreams to turn into sexual fantasies that made me masturbate much more often, all the while thinking about sex with my robot ex. My current friend would die if he knew that. "

-39 / female / straight


“I love the idea of ​​an RPG, so I like to introduce myself Harry Potter-Role play ahead. Snape and the nerdy Ravenclaw student. On one wall, on his desk. OH YES. I already have the Snape costume from last Halloween. The way Alan Rickman interpreted Snape is why I have this fantasy in the first place. But hey, I'm not complaining. I like tall, dark and scornful men. "

—23 / Female / Bisexual


“I actually have a rape fantasy. I would never tell anyone, let alone ask anyone to do so, because it seems so bizarre. There are so many women whose lives have been ruined because they were raped, but I didn't choose that fantasy. The imagination chooses you. "

—34 / female


"Doctor games plus lesbians plus enemas - all together. A very real medical setting with real medical aids and outfits and procedures as well as a kind of 'medically necessary' orgasm torture in which I am forced to keep a butt plug inside, all done by women and maybe with a man watching us. There must also be a pelvic / rectal examination somewhere. "

—28 / woman / bi


“For some reason, it always turns me on when a partner shows strong emotions. My fantasy is that me and a man are in a hospital and someone in his family has died. He's really upset and crying, and I'm upset and crying too because he does. Then I try to make him feel better by kissing him and holding him in my arms. Then he starts kissing me passionately and we sneak into a room and do it, very slowly and somehow sad, but very lovingly and passionately, with a lot of smooching. I never hear anyone talking about a fantasy like this, so I feel weird, embarrassed and ashamed of it, but that's my fantasy. "

—19 / female / straight


“To be in a loving, long-term relationship with two bi men. I'm not exactly into sex, so I would love to watch them satisfy each other and if I'm in the mood I can join in. But most of all, I can cuddle with them when they're done. "

—22 / Female / Asexual

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“For some reason, the thought of my boyfriend coming inside and making me pregnant turns me EXTREMELY. We don't want any children anytime soon, so I take the pill and he always pulls it out, but nothing would turn me on more than having insane sex, having a baby in the process, and feeling his semen deep inside me. "

—23 / Female / Straight


“I just have a massive piss fetish. It's so weird so I never tell anyone. I would like to - with a hot girl who is also into it - have a competition that is about who can hold it back longer. "

-18 / female / bi


“Most of my fantasies involve having a penis, which is something my current partner isn't exactly excited about, so I don't talk about it very often. My most distinctive fantasy is to have a male partner who arouses me until my cock is painfully erect, then brings me to my knees and fucks my mouth. After that, my partner would tease me until I almost cry and really beg. Then he would either have penetrative sex with me or jerk me off. "

—21 / trans man / gay


“My sexual fantasy consists of catching my partner cheating and then knocking out the woman and then showing my husband that no one can do it like me. So basically emotional cheating, violence, orgasms. The trinity of a perfectly healthy relationship! "

—23 / Female / Straight


“Having a threesome with a weather announcer and a weather announcer. It always starts the same way. The man undresses and says: 'A big storm front is coming!' It turns me on and at the same time I have to giggle at the weather puns. "

—22 / female / bisexual


“I've always wanted to be stopped, handcuffed and fucked on the hood of his car by a cop. I am usually a dominant person in real life. But if I am handcuffed, then I get horny. "

—24 / male / gay


“The thought that someone is putting on weight quickly, or that I'm putting on weight quickly myself, is very appealing to me. I do not know why. I know that is not healthy, but in my fantasy world I can gain weight and lose weight as I want and it would not have any health consequences. It's just that fat is nice and soft and round. I like the way it feels and how it looks (nice curves), but unfortunately in the real world there are consequences when you put on weight. "

—21 / female / bi

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"Sex on camera with my identical twin."

—39 / male / gay


“I want to be used in front of a group of people who are all watching and they all think it's great. For example, I have this very special fantasy of being at a party or something, where both men and women insult, humiliate and touch me. This makes me totally embarrassed and humiliated, but I'm starting to really enjoy it. Then they make comments like, 'Oh, do you like that, you bitch? Are you getting wet now? She is such a whore! ' - then they take turns touching me again and again and I can feel that everyone is laughing at me and watching until I come. "

—23 / Female / Bisexual


“I've always had this little Red Riding Hood fantasy. I knock on a door wearing a sexy red cape with a small basket full of goodies, but I'm surprised who answers. It's not the person I was expecting. It's a man I don't know and we're close together, too close for strangers.

I say: 'Well, what big eyes you have.'

The gruff, somewhat dangerous-looking wolf replies: 'So that I can see you better, my darling,' and I can feel his eyes wander over my body.

I say: 'Oh, what big, strong hands you have.'

The wolf comes closer to me and says: 'So that I can touch you better, my love'. Then he puts his hands between my legs.

I say in a breathless whisper: 'Oh, what full lips you have.'

The wolf brushes my mouth with his, lets his lips slide over my neck and says: 'So that I can LICK YOU BETTER, my darling.'

You can certainly imagine the rest. "

—35 / female / straight


“Myself and the other person are in a pool at night and we start making out passionately. Then we get out of the pool, dry off and go to a bed with black sheets / blankets. There are rose petals on the bed and it smells musky and sweet at the same time. We kiss as the person puts me on the bed, maintaining eye contact between kisses. We undress each other. We go into the missionary position, we have sex, maybe with a little kink, but not too much. We both fall asleep and when we wake up, we cuddle and talk about how much we love each other and then we go to brunch together, because why not? "

—23 / gender fluid / pansexual


"I've never told anyone about this, but I always wanted to try getting into a cup and then drink it to see how it tasted."

—19 / female / straight


“I've always wished that I was handcuffed, given a big meal, and teased about what kind of pig I am and how big my stomach has got. I find it so erotic to be really saturated and then shamelessly humiliated. My stomach is by far the strongest erogenous zone in my body. "

—26 / Male / Gay

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“I'm straight and have been in a monogamous relationship with my boyfriend for three years. But I secretly want to know what another woman would taste like. I would like to lick a woman one day. "

-28 / F / Straight


“I've always wanted to have sex with a large group of women. So just me and maybe nine or ten women. Just to completely overwhelm me. "

—19 / Male / Straight


“I have this fantasy where a partner doesn't even touch me, just makes eye contact while I'm using a vibrator and she tells me what to do with it. When to turn it up, whether to move it around or hold it still, when to just do my thing and have an orgasm. What I like is the orgasm, not the sex. Sex is boring. Orgasms on the other hand? Mm. Yes."

—22 / Female / Asexual Lesbian


“I like the idea of ​​an incest role play with an older man dominating me and using me as his personal toy. I like the idea that he humiliates me or shares it with his friends. "

—34 / Male / Straight


“My fantasy is that I live in a remote house in the middle of a forest. Then one day a hot, muscular, gray-haired lumberjack (forty or fifty years old) comes to my hut. We'll have a few hot drinks first and chat by the fireplace. We get to know each other, but it takes a few days. Then we have violent, passionate sex for a week everywhere: on my wooden bed, on the sofa in front of the fireplace, outside in the forest, etc. My favorite: he ties me to a tree trunk and we have a little bondage sex. "

—24 / female / heterosexual


“In a public park where someone could possibly walk by, my friend puts me over my knee and hits my bare bum, then fingers me to orgasm. I'm crazy about the idea of ​​public humiliation and getting caught doing it. It would turn me on incredibly if someone stopped and watched. "

—25 / female / straight


“I want to be satisfied by four busty, big-butted women who are extremely sexually gifted. Everyone is focused on me. I know it's selfish, but it's just my fantasy, isn't it? "

-32 / Male / Straight


“One of my biggest fantasies is that my fiancé is taking me on a fancy date and teasing me all night, whispering in my ear how much he wants to fuck me, and reaching under my skirt at the table. At the end of the night, we'd be so impatient to finally fuck each other that we wouldn't have time to undress before he pulls me over to him in the driver's seat of his car in the parking lot, pushing my panties aside and putting me right on would let himself be ridden. "

—23 / Female / Straight

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“I always had this fantasy of walking out in the woods or in a field and that she would randomly throw me on the ground and fuck me hard. It would be even better in the rain. "

—22 / Female / Lesbian


"I would cover a woman from head to toe in glitter, a thick layer of it until you can't see her skin underneath, then slap her bum and wiggle her tits to see the glitter trickle down, while I use a vibrator on myself with my free hand. "

—18 / female / bisexual


“To be a sex worker and to be picked up by my partner as a client. For some reason this fantasy always turned me on. "

—Pansexual / gender fluid and transmasculin


“One of my best friends who is straight (maybe bi, we experimented a bit in our early teens), who I've been in love with for over 15 years, tells me he wants to leave his girlfriend for me - and I point him and pick me up after he leaves. I don't know why I'm more into rejecting him than going through with it. "

—26 / male / gay


“Spending a full day naked with my best straight male friend. To experiment with each other sexually. Satisfy each other and leave nothing untouched. "

-60 / male / straight


“To have sex with a woman who is nine months pregnant with twins. The bigger the belly, the better. "

—19 / Female / Lesbian


“My biggest fantasy is going to a place where you can have sex with robots. I want to be fucked by a dildo machine, I want my clitoris to vibrate and my nipples to be stimulated at the same time. I want to be licked by tongue robot things. I want a dildo machine in my ass and in my vagina. I first saw stuff like this when I was watching porn in middle school. It was about a woman who was tied up and bent over and then fucked in her ass and pussy with suckers on her nipples. She even said that she had never had such violent orgasms or so many in her life. I've basically thought about it every day since then. "

—18 / female / bisexual

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“It's called 'macrophilia'. As far as I can remember, the first time I was aroused as a kid when I saw the old movie Gulliver's Travels saw. I fantasize almost exclusively about having sex with incredibly tall men - about 2.5 to 3 meters tall or so - but in real life I compromise by only dating men who are at least a foot taller than I."

—25 / female / straight


“My biggest fantasy is coming home very late. My wife is already sleeping, so I go quietly into the bedroom, sneak under the covers, pull her panties aside and lick them.When she wakes up, she runs her hands through my hair. After her orgasm (maybe she comes multiple times), she takes her hands off my head to tell me she's done. I dig out from under the sheets and fall asleep next to her without a word being spoken. "

—30 / Male / Straight


“I'm in a class and the topic of the day is reproductive anatomy. The professor is using me for a demonstration. He makes me undress and sit on his desk with my legs wide apart. He then goes through every part of the female anatomy before moving on to some kind of sex lesson and starting to please me in front of the whole class. Other students are asked to come up and look and do what he is doing. You can imagine how it will continue. "

—24 / female / straight


“Since I was young, I've always fantasized about sex with an amorphous blob that can be any size, shape, or number of tentacles I want. Like something that could read my mind to do what I want - and it might feed on my sexual energy or something. Like a sexy symbiotic relationship! "

—37 / cis woman / pansexual


“Don't judge me, but I've always wanted to fuck Putin. Preferably on a balcony. I'm definitely not telling anyone. "

—18 / female / pansexual

This article first appeared in English.