How do I masturbate when I'm 13

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  1. 27.06.2013, 08:20#1
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    Pubescent monster! Help

    Hello,

    my 12, soon to be 13-year-old, daughter was already very bad in her defiant phase. She is right in the middle of her puberty and I could turn her neck many times. I'm not saying anything about her style of clothing because she has to walk around like that and not me. But he doesn't bother me anyway because she looks cute in her clothes. A few things bother me a bit, but these things are just part of being a teen. What amazes me is that she hasn't experimented much with underground laundry yet. I'm kind of happy, although it bothers me a bit that she no longer only wears briefs but also boxer shorts. She really wanted to put on some make-up, which is why I showed her how to do it so that it doesn't look so sloppy, since then she has been doing her make-up now and then. It actually always looks cute too.
    So ... My problem is that sometimes she can be a real bitch, always defies, wants to offer resistance, etc. She doesn't follow the rules at all and I'm worried because sometimes a boy like that calls. That being said, she sometimes masturbates. Should I talk to her about it or let her do it? She's only 12, well ... 13 in about a month, but still.

    Kind regards
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  2. 28.06.2013, 15:16#2
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    Re: pubescent monster! Help

    Quote by Helpless
    Hello,

    my 12 soon to be 13-year-old daughter was already very bad in her defiant phase. She is right in the middle of her puberty and I could turn her neck many times. I'm not saying anything about her style of clothing because she has to walk around like that and not me. But he doesn't bother me anyway because she looks cute in her clothes. A few things bother me a bit, but these things are just part of being a teen. What amazes me is that she hasn't experimented much with underground laundry yet. I'm kind of happy, although it bothers me a little that she no longer only wears briefs but also boxer shorts. She really wanted to put on some make-up, which is why I showed her how to do it so that it doesn't look so sloppy, since then she has been doing her make-up now and then. It actually always looks cute too.
    So ... My problem is that sometimes she can be a real bitch, always defies, wants to offer resistance, etc. She doesn't follow the rules at all and I'm worried because sometimes a boy like that calls. That being said, she sometimes masturbates. Should I talk to her about it or let her do it? She's only 12, well ... 13 in about a month, but still.

    Kind regards
    You're not older than 12 either, are you?

  3. 29.06.2013, 12:13#3
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    Re: pubescent monster! Help

    Of course I'm older than 12. I'm her mother ...

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  5. 29.06.2013, 15:32#5
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    I don't see the monster now ... and how do you know that she pleases herself ???

  6. 29.06.2013, 18:38#6
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    Quote by jellyfish
    I don't see the monster now ... and how do you know that she pleases herself ???
    I read a lot of blabla and two detailed statements: about underwear and about masturbation. * ringelingeling * (These were the alarm bells that went off for me in such a case.)

    So now comes the usual stranger game, how insolent the regular users are here.

  7. 01.07.2013, 16:10#7
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    Quote by Helpless
    Hello,

    my 12, soon to be 13-year-old, daughter was already very bad in her defiant phase. She is right in the middle of her puberty and I could turn her neck many times. I'm not saying anything about her style of clothing because she has to walk around like that and not me. But he doesn't bother me anyway because she looks cute in her clothes. A few things bother me a bit, but these things are just part of being a teen. What amazes me is that she hasn't experimented much with underground laundry yet. I'm kind of happy, although it bothers me a little that she no longer only wears briefs but also boxer shorts. She really wanted to put on some make-up, which is why I showed her how to do it so that it doesn't look so sloppy, since then she has been doing her make-up now and then. It actually always looks cute too.
    So ... My problem is that sometimes she can be a real bitch, always defies, wants to offer resistance, etc. She doesn't follow the rules at all and I'm worried because sometimes a boy like that calls. That being said, she sometimes masturbates. Should I talk to her about it or let her do it? She's only 12, well ... 13 in about a month, but still.

    Kind regards
    It's all sweet and normal

  8. 01.07.2013, 18:45#8

    Re: pubescent monster! Help

    So if it is still so relaxed then you can be happy, she looks at your make-up tips from you and also uses them, that's great, that she is constantly against what you expect from her is unfortunately easy at this time so !!! I think you are a cool mother that your daughter will be proud of at some point !!! And as far as mastubating is concerned, she's just about to discover her body, feelings arise where there weren't any before, etc ... Me think about it you shouldn't worry, it hasn't hurt anyone until today, even if our parents were of the opinion that we could go blind from it ..... Son nonsense, just be open about it if she should ask you on that I would definitely not. Then she might get a guilty conscience and that is probably not appropriate, neither at 12 nor later. As parents, we still do not know for a long time what "remodeling measures" are in the child's body. If she likes it, she can at least talk to her partner later about what is good and not good for her. My first daughter was 13 when she had her first boyfriend, we talked about contraception, the boyfriend was with us at the doctor and they both listened to the doctor again what mom has already told at home. Sure, it is not always so easy for us to come to terms with the fact that our "babies" start to discover the world for themselves, but what they do it doesn't do any harm. It would be worse if she would start smoking ......... I hope you can start something with my advice and wish you a lot of strength, because we need that to let our kids grow up ! :)

  9. 03.07.2013, 14:00#9
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    Re: pubescent monster! Help

    As far as I can tell, it's all totally normal. It is not uncommon for girls who were quite good before to become real bitches at that age. There are far worse cases where you should really be concerned, but your daughter's behavior is nothing to worry about in my eyes.

  10. 06.07.2013, 21:11#10

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    All very questionable, especially the boxer shorts. I would go to an educational counseling center. They can certainly help you.

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